Mr. North Dakota International 2017 (husband edition!)
My
stomach felt like three giant knots tied into one as I stood backstage
watching my wife on the live feed of a small flat screen tv. I stood
there with the other husbands waiting eagerly and wondering which one of
us would be stepping out on stage shortly to crown his beautiful bride.
The moment seemed to linger on forever until the MC finally said, “And your Mrs. North Dakota International 2017 is…”
I'm
just thankful nobody was in close enough proximity as I buckled over
then released an upward double fist pump into the air in celebration!
Introverted
or not, I become pretty expressive when the woman I'm completely in
love with succeeds in life. It’s as if something is just leaping on the
inside of me! This was the beginning of a great year for Angelina as she
took her first walk as Mrs. North Dakota International 2017.
To
be quite honest, when my wife approached me three years prior about
entering the world of pageantry, I was a little skeptical. This was an
area foreign to me, especially growing up with three nature-loving
brothers and no sisters. Since that time though, I've said yes to the
journey and learned some things along the way that have reshaped my
perspective. Here are a few of them:
Pageantry doesn't make women great, it gives those already great a platform.
Of
course you need to compete in the area of fitness and have your wave
down, but I've discovered it's much more than that. The on-stage
competitiveness of pageantry is such a small part in comparison to the
community service. I loved seeing Angelina take every opportunity to use
her crown to be a light, an encouragement and a strength to those
around her. “You get out of your year what you put into it” her
directors would say. I have been one proud husband to see my wife using
her platform to challenge and serve young people across our state in a
variety of ways.
Pageantry provides opportunities for continual growth and perseverance.
When
Angelina spoke to students at a district youth event, I remember
sitting and listening to her words flow from one thought to the next
with such impact and wisdom. It was as if I was hearing it for the first
time. This year I watched my wife reach new levels in her public
communication. Each opportunity displayed her progress as she learned
new ways to prepare and deliver messages. Communication is an art. There
isn't a one size fits all for delivery style and it was an incredible
moment as she spoke with confidence in the unique style God has given
her.
Pageantry requires a great deal of mental prep
Interview
questions range far and wide from easy answers to brain busters.
However, both have one thing in common: three seconds. This is roughly
the amount of time you have to internally construct a credible,
worthwhile response before delivering an answer. I was nothing short of
amazed to hear Angelina tackle the tough questions. Angelina taught me
interview prep is less about studying individual questions and more
about studying the person in the mirror. Who am I? What makes me tick?
What is my stance on current political, social, and economic issues? Why
do I believe what I believe? I’ve watched confidence blossom in my wife
this year as she has developed a greater level of depth, faith, and
intelligence.
Pageantry
in our life has set the stage to be able serve in a great deal of ways.
It has been busy with schedules, events, and dresses and meeting new
people and making great connections, and traveling- most times in the
spotlight. Sure, there have been stressful moments as we approached the
national pageant, but the journey has been worth it! To see the
growth and success of my wife on stage, and even more so off stage… To
see little kids light up when she walks into a room and watch her treat
them as if they are the only one in the room… To see the inner
fulfillment in Angelina and her connection to the community…these have
been the best parts of this experience. My privilege as a husband
has been getting a front row seat to it all while watching my wife
transform into the woman she has always been destined to become. And I
am convinced this is just the beginning!
Jacob Yarbrough
Husband of Mrs. North Dakota International 2017