"Even like the subtlest things"
The homeless very rarely ever get a donation of new socks. Most
people usually donate used or out of style clothing to the needy, but usually
throw out their socks because they are warn. The homeless have very serious physical
health problems because they do not have socks. There are other problems that
are involving mental and spiritual health.
After being homeless myself, for six months during 2014, I
remember the feelings of lack of self-worth, dignity and pride that I
experienced. We had stopped entertaining, our kids
no longer wanted to have friends over, my oldest daughter wanted to quit
cheerleading, people at their schools had noticed by this time and questioned
and made fun of them for wearing the same eight tops and the same four pant to
school, despite the creative combinations they came up with. It was during
these lower times that I relied on perseverance, faith and hope. In whatever
form that they come in, even socks.
New socks can help
improve the well-being and outlook of the homeless. Socks are an easy yet
positive way to help the homeless. Because of the harshness of their lives,
many homeless people are crushed in spirit. I have seen socks bring healing to
broken lives and provide strength during a time that they have none. It is a
very basic way to feel normal. To feel human. To feel dignity. To feel hope.
Here is a William’s
story:
“My name is William.
The Shelter system, my personal feeling, is a shelter but they actually kick
you out during the day, so all day you’re wandering the streets. Killing time,
just wasting time, waiting to get back at 5 o’clock, so, and again, you’re
walking around all day because you don’t have money to eat. So how are you
supposed to commute, we walk everywhere, right? Especially in the winter when
you’re wondering the streets you only have one pair of shoes, one pair of
pants- just whatever is on your back. You get soaking wet, and then slush comes
onto you when the cars come by, or you slip and fall. Like those socks just
start getting like sand paper, you know, when they start drying up a little
bit, and they start cutting into the back of your heels. At the end of the day,
you’re cold, your feet are becoming pruned, so all around it’s just very
demeaning. Even when you’re just walking around, you feel uncomfortable, you
just look around at everyone else, and their feet are warm and dry, and you
could just wish that, you know. Even like the subtlest things, like a pair of
socks can make the biggest difference in the world.”
One pair at a time,
Erin Bertel
Mrs. North Dakota International 2015